Lov3 is in The Air ! Happy Valentine's Day!

Helo everyone!

Guess what? Today is a valentine's day! (well, everybody know it..rite)..so guys, what's your plan for today?

Originally, because it is valentine's day..i want to write something romantic as an entry, but then again i remember..i got lotsa work to do *cough2* (not really :p).

Well, not to worry guys! I've got something up my sleeve, and it should solve all the problems..hehe.

Ok, here's the thing..

Every relationship has its up and down..but it’s all depends on how both parties to spice things up..so if things aren't good between you and your partner right now, then this might be just the thing to slowly melt the ice between you two..or if things are already good, this will strengthen your relationship even further; but don’t be afraid, there is nothing expensive on this list so there is no excuse not to give this a shot.

So, if you think it's hard to be romantic partner? then think again..

Here are a list of 50 things you can do to express your love and be a romeo (or juliet)!. :P



1. Write "I love you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror after he takes a shower.

2. Offer a back massage with some good smelling lotion.

3. Write a poem. Then use Google Translator to translate a poem into either French or Italian. Then handwrite it out with the translation on the back side. Or better yet, greet your partner at night and read it to them with passion and then hand them the translation.

4. While in public, declare "I love you, Matilda!" (not Matilda, but your partner's name.)

5. Make a CD with a few songs that are meaningful to your relationship.

6. Invite him to take a bath complete with bubbles, champagne, candles, and maybe a little Barry White. (the music, not actually Barry White in your tub.)

7. Surprise her at work and take her out to lunch, maybe take-out food in the park or maybe to a little diner, for a midday romantic interlude.

8. Put together a little gift on his pillow: chocolate and a note that says "Your love is like chocolate: sweet and delicious."

9. If your partner has a work presentation at an off site location, have flowers and a note of support delivered there.

10. Dedicate a song to him on the radio and send him an email telling him when to listen.

11. Cook a special love meal of your partner's favorite foods. Play his favorite music and turn the lights low for a romantic dinner.

12. Give your partner a pedicure and foot rub.

13. Send a text message or email that says "I love you!"

14. Mail a card and inside write down the top 10 things you love about your partner.

15. Give him a picture of you for his wallet that says "I love you."

16. Leave a love note in her car telling her to have a great day.

17. Carve your initials in a tree.

18. When your partner least expects it, give him a great big kiss, even if it's in public!

19. Go see a romantic movie, sit in the back row, hold hands, and cuddle.

20. King for a Day/ Queen for a Day. Declare that you will dedicate a particular day just to your partner to do whatever they want. Maybe start with breakfast in bed.

21. Buy a tree and invite your partner to plant it with you explaining that this tree represents the love between you both that will grow over the years.

22. In the midst of talking about how your days went, the chores that need to be done, etc. interrupt and say "I have something important to tell you. I love you and here's why." Then list 5 things (or more) that you really appreciate about your partner. Finish with a kiss and say, "Ok, so you were talking about the water heater."

23. Write an old fashioned love letter and mail it. Be romantic and lavish. Have some fun with it.

24. Before going to a party together come up with some secret code words you can use during conversation. You can be telling each other "I can't wait to get you alone tonight!" without anyone knowing!

25. Find a hotel that has a jacuzzi and book it for a one night getaway somewhere close but fun.

26. Place an ad in the classifieds declaring your love. Then take the newspaper, wrap it in a bow, and put a little note on it saying what page to look on.

27. Blindfold surprise. Blindfold your partner and drive them to the place where you had your first date, and have that date all over again!

28. Write a love poem for her.

29. Make an early valentine. Cut out some paper in the shape of a heart. Write something sweet on it in red and put it in her purse or his briefcase.

30. If your partner is going on a business trip secretly hide a love note inside their luggage.

31. Offer to help them with some dreaded chore they must complete and make it into a fun time maybe with some music. (cleaning out the basement, raking the leaves, shoveling after a big snow storm, giving the dog a bath, washing the car, etc.)

32. Do something romantic and spontaneous, like picking a flower and giving it to her right on the spot.

33. Invent a meal and name it after him or her.

34. Buy some body paint and write your love message on your body.

35. Record yourself reading a romantic love poem for your honey. Then give your partner a CD and tell them to play it in the car on their way to work.

36. Make a small postcard sized love collage. Then cover it with clear packing tape. Write a love message on the other side and mail it!

37. Keep a box with mementos of fun things you've done together. Later when the box is filled, arrange them on a board and have it framed.

38. Buy some underwear with special messages on it. Or buy your own and paint a special picture or message with fabric paints.

39. Make a donation to charity in the name of your love for your partner. Give your sweetheart a card that tells how grateful you are to share your life with her.

40. Keep a box with special cards, letters, photographs, and other mementos. On your anniversary or on
Valentine's day take a little time to share fond memories together as you review the contents.

41. Create a mindmap of all the things you love about your partner and make it into a card.

42. Take a walk on the beach together. Run up ahead and write a message in the sand, and then call your partner to see what you "found."

43. Say "I love you" often, slowly, and with feeling.

44. Play hooky together. You work hard. Now today take a day to work easy at just sharing some fun time together. Call it an "I love you day."

45. Send an e-card to your sweetie to brighten his day. Here are free e-card resources: Apple iCards, BlueMountain, Hallmark.

46. Make little "I love you" posters with either crayons, markers, collage, paint, whatever. Post them in surprising places: the bathroom, the closet, the car, under her pillow, on her pillow.

47. Create a small website or blog dedicated to your partner. Write a short love message each day for a month...or forever.

48. Complete that chore or favor that your partner has wanted you to do for a long time.

49. Be super kind for a whole day. Act like you would with a new love, a child, or a frail person. Show lots of kindness, generosity, and love no matter what for a whole day.

50. Take an interest in your partner's interests. For a woman it might be watching a football game with your guy. And for men it might be going to see a chick-flick. Do it with a spirit of enthusiasm and love.


Have fun guys! xDD

Wet Clothes and Bras

Hello my loyal readers (mcm trip2 top pla ni kan) today's topic/entry will be about XXXX!
Hahaha..teda la..It's just some nice-to-know info saja bah..boleh kan?

My entry here is for education purpose only ok..so don't get me wrong ah girls? And this is my very first english entry...so everyone, just bear with me. Dont judge! hahahaha xDD (terutamanya cigu2 inggeris..hehe)! Your kind cooperation is, as always, very much appreciated. Heeehe.

Wet Clothes

Did you know, most men find the sight of a woman wearing clinging, soaking wet clothes a tremendous turn on.Wet clothes catch a men attention more than any other clothes. It is a effective weapon to seduce a men. In fact, men are even more aroused if the drenching is apparently spontaneous.

Women in europe have realized this fact more than 2 centuries ago. They have a trend of wetting their clothes before going out and the trend keep going in the winter.

Some of them got cold and some even died because at that time a fever was enough to kill someone. But, as they say fashion rises from pain, a cold is nothing. I wish that trend would come once again. :p

Bras for dummies

All men love boobs but they are so clueless and confused when it comes to bra size (36C. 32A etc etc). So, out of courtesy to my fellow brothers (ececeh)..i'm willing to share some of my sacred + divine wisdom to them (especially to aki) after doing a considerably intense trawling on the net..gyahaha.

Alright guys.. first of all, in order to determine a bra size (such as 32, 34, 36,38  refers to the size of the band to fit all the way around her) the measurements are taken around the rib cage right under the breast. 

Then in order to determine cup size (such as A,B,C,D,DD, refers to the size of the breast) another measurement is taken around the rib cage and breasts at the largest point (where they stick out the most). 

For each inch that the second measurement is larger than the first measurement a cup size is added. So if the first measurement is 36 and the second measurement is 37 then it would be an A cup and the bra size would be a 36 A.

How to know her cup size?

It goes like this, if the difference between 1st measurement and 2nd measurement is:

under 7.5 cm (approx. 2.95 inch) ~ AA

under 10 cm (approx. 3.94 inch) ~ A

under 12.5 cm (approx. 4.92 inch) ~ B

under 15 cm (approx. 5.91 inch) ~ C

under 17.5 cm (approx. 6.89 inch) ~ D

under 20 cm (approx. 7.87 inch) ~ E

under 22.5 cm (approx. 8.86) ~ F

Ok, to make it simpler, A is just under a hand full of that. B is a nice handful, C is maybe two handfuls and D and up you just need a wheelbarrow! gyahaha. For instance, when a bra says, 36B, 36 is how many inches all the way around the girls rib cage, and B is the size of the womans breast that go in the "cup" to hold them suckers up..got it?

Lemme tell you something funny, according to the stats..our country average breast cup size is A (what??). Less than 5% of the women in our country have a D cup and of that 5% most of them have a rib measurement 38 and above (another meaning: fatty). And most of the sales are probably to old women..kinda sucks isn't it?

So, it's a rare for 32 or 34 to get a D~F cup unless your country is America..haha (an implant maybe).

And only 10% of the women have C cups, so if the number isn't 38 and it's about 32 or 34 that an amazing body!

Having said that, women who got the 34D is surely a goddess! Gyahaha!

However, please keep in mind..different countries hold a different measurement units and standards. Here is the table of bra measurement in some other countries

View bra size
Underbust  (CM)	Home Past (CM)	Japan	France	America	Europe
63-67	77-79	A65	80A	30A	65A
	79-81	B65	80B	30B	65B
	81-83	C65	80C	30C	65C
	83-85	D65	80D	30D	65D
	85-87	E65	80DD	30DD	65DD
68-72	82-84	A70	85A	32A	70A
	84-86	B70	85B	32B	70B
	86-88	C70	85C	32C	70C
	88-90	D70	85D	32D	70D
	90-92	E70	85DD	32DD	70DD
73-77	87-89	A75	90A	34A	75A
	89-91	B75	90B	34B	75B
	91-93	C75	90C	34C	75C
	93-95	D75	90D	34D	75D
	95-97	E75	90DD	34DD	75DD
78-82	92-94	A80	95A	36A	80A
	94-96	B80	95B	36B	80B
	96-98	C80	95C	36C	80C
	98-100	D80	95D	36D	80D
	100-102	E80	95DD	36DD	80DD
83-87	97-99	A85	100A	38A	85A
	99-101	B85	100B	38B	85B
	101-103	C85	100C	38C	85C
	103-105	D85	100D	38D	85D
	105-107	E85	100DD	38DD	85DD
88-92	102-104	A90	105A	40A	90A
	104-106	B90	105B	40B	90B
	106-108	C90	105C	40C	90C
	108-110	D90	105D	40D	90D
	110-112	E ninety	105DD	40DD	90DD

50 things girls should know about guys

1. Guys aren’t psychic, mind telling them what you mean?

2. Guys don’t like to be used as pawns in trying to make your friends jealous.

3. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. Better watch out girls.

4. The biggest turn off for guys is to see girls smoking.

5. The biggest turn on for guys are the girls who workout.

6. Girls who don’t want to listen to the truth shouldn’t be asking any questions.

7. Ending a heated conversation with “Fine” or “Whatever” isn’t considered acceptable.

8. If you want sex, just ask.

9. Don’t expect guys to say as many sweet things as they do in the movies. It takes 10 couples to come up with one sweet thing that they put up in the movies.

10. Only models are able to carry off most of the stuff you see in fashion magazines.

11. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

13. Guys need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

14. Guys don’t care about how gorgeous you are, it’s goodbye, adios, and sayonara if you’re being a bitch.

15. All guys are kinky and willing to try anything that you may enjoy, just let them know.

16. Guys are more emotional than you think. If they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

17. A guy would do just about anything to get you to notice him.

18. Guys do not look into minute detailing. So, if you gave up a quarter of an inch from your 20 inches long hair, don’t expect your guy to know that instantly.

19. Guys like porn!

20. Anything said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.

21. “The game is on” will be considered an acceptable excuse to postpone any serious conversations.

22. Cooking makes a girl all the more attractive.

23. You can’t get mad if your guy refuses to hook up your “ugly friend” with one of his good-looking friends.

24. Nothing you will ever do will entitle you to operate the remote control, unless operating means handing it to him.

25. The only thing left to be said after sex is “goodnight.”

26. Video games have helped men develop awesome finger skills that only encourage them to play more often.

27. Critiquing a man’s driving is outright unacceptable.

28. Guys’ night outs are sacred events. If you ask any question about it, you’ll be castigated.

29. Believe it or not, 99.5% of the time men honestly don’t mean to hurt you.

30. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

31. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.

32. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

33. Don’t hold it against your guy if he starts to cry after a good sports movie, and was laughing outrageously last night when the two of you were watching an emotional drama saga.

34. Leaving a message like “You know what?! Mmm… Never mind…” would make a guy hanging on to that thought all day long and reach a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. Don’t ever do that!

35. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

36. Guys love you more than you love them.

37. No matter how much guys talk about hotness or sex appeal, personality is key.

38. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

39. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.

40. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

41. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

42. You like when your guy calls and asks you out for dinner and pays for you, right? Well yeah, guys like it once in a while too.

43. It’s natural for a guy’s eyes to wander.

44. It’s not that guys don’t want to make their girlfriends happy; it’s just that sometimes, they don’t know how.

45. A guy would give his right arm to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

46. Not all guys are jerks. Just because one is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents all of them.

47. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he isn’t doing it all for sex. It means he likes you more than you can imagine.

48. Even if you dumped a guy months ago and he loved you, he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be to have you back in his life.

49. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

50. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over novels and make-ups.

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Just a thought

Tanda Lelaki Tiada Duit

Halo..ehehe..saya ada tips mau sharing dengan kamu ni, iaitu tanda-tanda mengenalpasti bf/suami/kenalan anda tiada duit.

Isu duit ni memang agak sensitif bagi lelaki, jarang sekali untuk lelaki mengakui dirinya tiada duit (atau sedang berjimat). Biasa mereka yang tiada duit akan memberi 1001 satu alasan untuk mengelak gf/isteri/kawan dari mengajaknya untuk melakukan aktiviti yang mengeluarkan duit.

Sebagai satu contoh pabila anda mengajak dia makan tengahari dia akan jawab "Ala geng, saya lupa bawak dompet la ni ari.." Jawapan lawak?? Ya, ini adalah perkara biasa dan salah satu cara dia mau bagitau orang dia sebenarnya tiada duit tanpa memalukan diri sendiri..hehehe.

Kebiasaannya diorang akan beri alasan kurang logik/lawak untuk mengelakkan situasi serius dan kekok supaya orang dari tidak bersimpati terhadap dirinya (well..semua org tau lelaki adalah spesis yg ego).

Disini beberapa contoh tanda kalau dia tiada duit:

Rajin mengemas rumah

Apabila hujung minggu, si dia memberi alasan yang dia ingin mengemas rumah dan malas mau keluar rumah.

Padahal kamu tau dia bukan jenis suka mengemas rumah/bilik. Rumah/bilik pun macam zoo, kalau ada singa sesat pun belum tentu jumpa kan.







Minat tengok DVD atau movie?

Sekiranya anda perasan lelaki suka membeli DVD tapi jarang sekali menontonnya kecuali di waktu lapang tapi sewaktu dia tiada duit, DVD adalah teman sejatinya.

Bagi mereka menonton DVD di rumah lebih memberi lebih banyak kelebihan daripada keluar berjalan atau menonton wayang.





Makan di gerai murah

Sebelum ini, mungkin dia selalu ajak kamu makan di restoran-restoran yang ada 'class' atau paling tidak pun akan membawa kamu makan ditempat-tempat ber'ekon'.

Tetapi kali ini, dia mengambil keputusan membawa kamu ke gerai murah atas alasan makanan disana sedap atau sekadar ingin ubah selera.






Bawak bekal

Jika sebelum ni dia selalu turun makan breakfast/tengahari. Tapi waktu sesak jangan hairan jika dia tiba2 sahaja bawak bekal/tapau p kelas/opis.

Jika ditanya dia akan jawab "Oh, malam tadi saya masak banyak, so rugi pula kalau buang..alang2 bagus saya buat bekal kan"






Pulang awal

Selepas menjemput kamu dari pejabat, dia terus membawa kamu pulang ke rumah. Padahal, kebiasaannya dia selalu membawa kamu keluar minum petang sebelum balik.

Alasannya: “Sebenarnya, saya cadang mo bawak ko minum petang, tapi saya rasa tidak sedap badan bah..besok2 la ya” ataupun "Ala,saya cadang mo bawak ko makan petang, tapi jalan jammed pula ni..takut nanti 'stuck' dalam traffic jam pula kalau lambat"


"Terlupa" hadiah harijadi

Selama ini, si dia tidak pernah ketinggalan memberi hadiah menjelang ulang tahun kamu berdua atau menjelang hari-hari istimewa. Tetapi kali ini, si dia hanya memberikan ucapan dan membawa kamu p belanja makan tanpa pemberian sebarang hadiah

Alasannya: “Susa o mau cari hadiah ko, tu ari ada saya jumpa di kedai c anu..tp suda sold out, nanti la ah”




Menasihati kamu setiap kali ingin membeli sesuatu

Si dia kelihatan tidak tenang apabila kamu mengajaknya ke pusat beli-belah. Mungkin si dia takut apabila kamu menyuruhnya membelikan sesuatu untuk kamu klu p shopping.

Dia akan tnya " Eeee... penting sangat ka ko beli ni..baik ko fikir2 dulu..membazir seja"







Hanya menemani

“Sori, saya sudah makan di rumah tadi sebelum keluar, saya teman kamu makan saja ya?”

Itulah jawapannya ketika kamu mengajaknya makan di luar. Dengan kata ‘menemani’, ia bererti tiada keperluan untuknya membelanja kamu. Bijak kan.












SMS sahaja

Kebiasaannya, setiap saat dan minit si dia rajin menelefon kamu, tetapi kali ini dia lebih gemar menghantar mesej menerusi khidmat pesanan ringkas atau SMS.

Alasannya: “Kita main sms saja la ah, murah sikit, boleh jimat dan banyak boleh taip.”












Kereta rosak

Tanpa kamu bertanya, si dia menceritakan soal berkaitan keretanya yang kian meragam. “Selalunya ok saja, tetapi hari ini saya terdengar bunyi lain2 dalam enjin, takutnya… kenapa ini.”

Begitulah alasannya. Si dia mungkin sukar berterus-terang kepada kamu tentang masalah kewangannya dan dia pasti akan beri kamu "clue". (paham-paham la bah)










Pandai hilang dari meja makan

Dia akan mengelak kamu/kawan2 ketika waktu membayar bil, tiba-tiba saja mau pigi toilet la, pergi ambil barang la..ada saja alasan yang akan dia guna. Kalau  tidak pun dia akan sengaja lambat2 kasi keluar wallet.

Ayatnya lebih kurang gini la "Aduh, kejap ah..kamu/ko kasi settle bill dulu la..saya sakit perut ni, mo pi toilet jap"






Penampilan tidak terurus

Bagi lelaki masalah duit adalah sesuatu yang serius dan secara tidak langsung boleh memberi effect terhadap penampilan mereka, si dia juga akan jadi malas mau jaga penampilan. Dia menjadi kurang kemas dan rambut kusut masai dengan unshaven facial hair.
Selain dari itu, si dia juga akan jadi lebih moody dan pendiam.









 Downgrade' rokok

Jika sebelum ni dia dengan selamba mengisap rokok Dunhil, Marlboro, yang berharga RM 10, secara tiba2 dia akan hisap rokok murah (smuggle) seperti 'Era, Premium, John, League' dan banyak lagi jenama rokok yang anda tidak pernah dengar. Itu bererti dia dalam kesempitan duit/ berjimat la tu. Dalam erti kata lain "tiada duit".

Coolest paper bag ever!

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