Gone

tahun 2013 ni macam tahun terima berita terkejut
mostly are sad news la
news yg i tak sangka sungguh

setiap kematian adalah pasti . but that's the fact kan

it's all first started when the former GM of Taman Negara passed away on the 1st Jan 2013
what a sad way to celebrate your new year
but i am truly blessed that we've managed to visit him and that property on oct 2012 after so much pestering from him to me and my boss
we spent that 3d2n well together
no internet, social activity etc except for important sms and calls

1st Jan, received news that he is gone. after the major operation sometimes in march-may 2012 that he went through to throw his colon cancer. He is recovering but still
as others said, when it comes to silent killer cancer and at stage 4, it's just on your luck to survive the next life

i cried for him :

and recently while everyone is busy celebrating our raya, that particular 7th August i have lost my deary friend and personal doctor Dr Bhavani which i used to call her nick as Dr B or Bunny as her other friends knew her

My lovely and attentive doctor which i knew since she's been at my work panel clinic way back 2005 onwards. Not only she's been very helpful as a patient-doctor relationship but she is willing to assist by advising onto your personal health and life. We continued keep in touch as she and family decided to move to Dubai for a change in life and career. And i got pregnant, and we continued emailing each other and updates our life phase so on. Through out my 9mo  pregnancy, she has been there for me to seek 2nd opinion advice.

And when they decided to move to OZ about 2 yrs back i think, we still in touch. Sometimes in FB too. She will  reply my email no matter how late it is. Tho we're miles apart but it feels so close to each other (sounds cliche?)

till my last email to her dated 7th July which she never replied me at all till 3weeks back.
Which i thought it is some kind of joke/prank email from her with titled : Join us in our mourning -__-

reading the email content has somehow made me think it was pure joking till i read thrice and let myself digest and accept that she is my favourite DR B that has gone away, forever.
i have no more personal doctor and friend that always be my side whenever i'm worried over my irregular periods, i have this issue and etc
my curiosity has been answered, she were in silent coz she was in massive car accident on 7th august when she's otw to work. as i heard from other docs that she had a massive  injured which left 50-50 chances.

Dr B, just want you to know that i cried like a little girl (that u used to tell me) and almost couldn't believed and accept the fact that you're gone. I am so sad and i don't know why it has given me so much impact. but i guess God has a better plan for you there.

I felt sorry for Chris, Nat and Tina

i wish i can tell them that you have been so proud over Nat that has went to special school for his talented gift and Tina for growing up into such a beautiful girl and of course Chris that has been there for u always 

Doc, i just feel that you have been helping me a lot and there's nothing that i did in  return for you besides that my doa that may your sould in peace there

i might be looked so harsh outside but i'm just a small little girl that you've known since my 20s till i am married with one daughter

ps : leceh update cerita sedih kat office coz sure meleleh and i can't help to hide it

8th SCFM Gath

blog dah lama tak di-update. sorry i am so busy travelling msia uolls

mommies that joined 

part of ajk for the kemas time

This 8th scfm (secret club for mommies) gath was held 9mac2013 at Villa wangsamas multi purpose hall

SCFM is a club for mommies who wants to share experiences/add a knowledge  in parenting, babies, rumahtangga, tips, dos and donts while pregnant and lots more

in here too, we gotta meet new friends from cyber onto real world by attending the gathering that we have. only open to newlywedd and female! so mom-to-be is also welcome

and so i am the volunteer AJK for exchg gift. This time our total AJKs was up to 8/9pax

agenda are :

registration

exchange gifts (among mommies)

hit the pinata (for kids)

voting games (for mums, dads, kiddo)

coloring contest

pot luck meals session

birthday celebration- jan to march kiddos

As you can see, the otai's from SCFM (who have joined at earlier stage, back in 2011) have our own scfm t-shirt. so newbies you gotta wait till we open the order

beside bonding and meeting new mommies,kids and daddies have met their new friends too. 

food

based on pot luck

exchg gift counter 

the winner for coloring contest

HM spotted!

registration counter

the GMMJ group 

deco superbly done by our volunteer deco ajk

hit the pinata time

cake cutting

alana won the coloring too

to some of my friends who has been in this club, we shared info kan. but whatever happen/written in there i hope to stay in the SCFM ONLY!

After9th Nursing wear

and so on valentines day (takde related pun actually)

The AFter9th Nursing wear has been published on Fb

http://www.facebook.com/After9th


it's all started when Irlia decided to have this since she had difficulty to find a affordable yet nice (kira hak mampu di miliki oleh semua la ni) nursing wear. Not everyone afford to buy Dynas kan. So she venture into this
And by knowing minah ni limited access and agak busy la sgt agaknye nak buat benda2 IT ni, she asked my favor to help. Kira partner in crime la, and so i said YES

I mean this could be my part time job. I still can manage and handle it in office (nampak sgt takde keje pun) plus i am multi-tasker hokay

So with that, please help to spread around and like our FB page

Our first batch of clothing dah di upload, and that goes for trial. After this we'll customize our items based on demands jugak. Of coz la nak jual barang yg org nak kan

Big Bad Wolf book fair 2012

Finally we did it!
we went about 12am+ and finished at almost 3am. By the time we left was about 330am for some refreshment hahahah

I've missed the 2011 so the moment this BBW was in FB, i have decided that i could not miss it this time. but i need to find my kaki to go along kan
On the day, lucky hubby and Ezany are managed to go.
And yes i dragged my luggage along, which i don't regret it at all
Tho hubby gimme this one kind look for having it but hey, at the end, u pun tumpang your books jugak

My review was ; Yes, there's too many books around. From kids, sci-fictions, biography, travel (so few choices), recipes/cook, car, self enrichment, religion, romance etc
3millions book ok. But the famous writer that i was looking for ie : Jodi Piccoults, some interesting travelogue, religion book in BM were not there. Anyhow, not complaining as the price was too cheap, as cheap as RM5/book

And thank you to the team of BBW who finally had this brilliant idea of having it 63hours for the first 3 days as it gives the working ppl to come and get our books.  Otherwise its either weekend or weekdays la kena datang

total catch for mine was RM104.

for HM

Mine

crowds as almost to 3am

Will i definitely be there again next time?
YES, if they'll having it every year pun
me and books has always be a good friend :D

take a break

ok, i've had like quite an eventful september and october
starts with Raya, lepas tu office event and conference on 19-23 sept , siap berkampung di Traders, lepas tu musim kawan2 kahwin, lepas tu break few days pastu i've had another training for GM's pulak. Phiewwwwwwww

 when October comes, early Oct haritu Hubs went to Singapore for training. so me & HM je kat umah for 4days. Tapi berjaya deported HM to ampang upon request by her nenek, and so me had a single time sehari. Went out + a minor shopping with Muja, kawan yg dah lama ku tak jumpa since he became a lecturer at Uitm Jengka, which suddenly decided to quit and back to KL and join bank again.

last weekend, ada lagi kawan kahwin. One at the Duchess on 8/10/11 which Hubs performed main gitar. It's quite a good one coz we gotta meet semua pun yang tentu nya sure ada lawak jenaka + their convincing appearance that night. Must say a good job boys

so yesterday we went to Somban, for my BIL engagement. It's like  at least 7 cars on board. macam2 ragam. Together with Iza+Glenn = Maia yang came from London, on 2 weeks hols. Glenn was so excited berbaju melayu. Malaysia Boleh!

Kemudian, masa yang di nantikan telah tiba. Ku akan berangkat ke Bangkok, city of shopping. hahahah. It's my first time tho. just wait and see how big damages gonna be. It's my annual company trip la so HM & hubs stay di KL saja. let just hope i have something to share in this blog about my trip which is 2-days-away....

Aramaiteeeeey

I am so excited for this newlyweds. i dunno why. Perhaps  because it's been a while since i met her

and i  put an all out effort for attending this. Dress in line with the theme. Checked. Present for the couple. Checked. meni and pedicure. Done. trying my best to look stunning for her

the invitation cards that was received earlier. isn't it cool?

Passiod Road, Jalan Yap Kwan Seng. So it was my first time made a debut here. Never knew it was exist. or maybe i just couldn't be bothered that my time has passed? haha. lame

I saw lots of sporty cars parked outside. Erm, who's the crowds anyway?

Signed guest booked, wrote a wishes in the  book and i was seated at the F table. and there i met Murni, Faz and Ummi. The ONLY st. marian's girls that has been invited. Seriously, i have no idea of who else is coming, which only then i knew. So at least, i knew few people there. and beside Mike who's been appointed as the wedding planner. Good job dude

Waited and drank. Finally Mun & Denys arrived. She is absolutely gorgeous OK. plus the wedding gown that been designed by Syaiful bahrim. Its stunning and flawless on her

I'm impressed with the whole deco done. romantic and classy. Figure out that she has such a helpful and thoughtful friends that  helped her with all the preps. From being an MC, giving out speeches and statistics (lol. this Ken guy is really drunk, way before the event started), the wedding planner etc etc. So its more on personal touches. And so we've been greeted by the friendly MC and partner, and another speeches by their closest friends, then only the buffet is served

Food combination was not bad, and the food are tasty and scrumptious. Potato salad, nasi minyak, fish n chips, the sinful mushroom soup which  is very rich & thick, dessert and everything. Great. I'm full. Thanks

And this Rumors band just simply knew whats the best for this cocktail/reception wedding. They played a cool music, mix of Michael Buble, Jason Mraz etc. 

Ops, before that. Munirah is a mixed of Pakistani which i believed she gets it from her father. and Denys itself is a Kadazan with one son, Ethan, which they clicked together instantly. Ethan is exactly a copy-cat of Denys face. sejibik i tell u. 

so when kadazan meets, ofcoz they'll known for the air tapai. It's provided that night thou. sapa nak can order jer. as a community services announced, the effects will take some times. so do not think that you'll perfectly alright, you'll feel the kick later ya.

and so does they have this traditional dance, Sumazau dance with their own song.the title is Sayang Kinabalu. part of the lyrics was this : 

tingi2 gunung kinabalu, tinggi lagi sayang saya sama kamu. hati saya rindu 

Then it"s time for the bride & groom dance. aiya, lupa pulak what songs but its absolutely a nice songs for both of them. so sweet je tengok both couple ni on the dance floor

And now time for the rest of the guest to be at the dance floor. So it all started when the Sayang Kinabalu song been played again. most of Denys Sabahan relatives & friends slowly walking towards the dance floor. And followed by a salsa/latin song. which by this time, others are starting to join the crowds, including myself. Dah start goyang2 kaki and badan. takde partner plak to dance, knowing by hubby not so good in dancing. if layan kepala punya music : techno dia bolehla hahah. 

Before heading home, grab my self a picture with the lovely Mun, with the rest. Obviously, i can"t  keep her to myself that night as she's been wanted by everyone. It's her BIG day kan. so dapat snap few pics pun jadila. 

To Munirah & Denys : i know you guys will have so much fun together with Ethan. May you'll be shower with happiness, prosperous and surrounded with bountiful peeps around

note : links to view rest of the pics here

2011 begins

4th day of 2011. how's yours so far?

Mine went quite OK and happy. meeting up family members and beloved friends that shared the same pale otak, was always fun

and not to forget, people tried to embrace the beginning of new year by celebrating with their loved ones.

Getting married, having a new bundle of joy, started work at a new places bla bla was truly a good way to starts the 2011

I had the opportunity to witnessed Sarah & Andy's wedding at Bora Asamara, tho the noticed was sent quite last minute but since it's gonna be at night, so i'm a bit free. The daytime  weddings , was quite a few too.

Ir was my date for that night. 

Sarah and i was a schoolmate at St.Mary primary school. Most of her siblings are girl so dulu tuh teringat diorang tu macam tangga, dari tinggi ke rendah. Sarah with her 2 ponytails and her spectacles, haha so cute. Now all of them are back to NY/London (tak sure sgt) and Sarah & Andy decided to celebrate their big day with us here in KL tho they had been nikah a year ago. 

Met few of my St. Mary' s girls Hanim (preggers, 4th baby this time), Umi, Azuar (apparently is Sarah saudara), Zetty and few others that had familiar faces

Me, Ummi, Irlia and Zetty

Wawa, me, Irlia and my junior from SMS

To Sarah & Andy, thou i don't have  the chance to get to know you more closer, i wish both of you to be blessed and surrounded with bountiful loves, all the time

"Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. " 

Another gathering

We, the stmarian girls, had another meet-up again.
This time it was at Bubba Gump, The Curve, 24 Oct 2010

Thanks to Farihan for her effort, in organizing this.
We do need new fresh gossips and cam-whores session
including our newborn babies and toddler and our beloved partners

From Jeiji's camera

Farihan's Iphone- classic :)

13 years and counting. Love it!! xoxo