Down the Memory Lane..

2 more days to go..2nd year together as hubby and wife..too many ups and downs..shall recap in the next entry..as for now, i'm walking down the memory lane..

Pre-Wed 

Nikah 25/12/2008

Bride's Reception 27/12/2008

Groom's Reception 4/1/2008 (on my birthday..yippeee..hehehe)

p/s- haih..betapa kurusnya dahulu kala..sikalang??wuwuwuwu..boleh tak terasa nak gi balik time kawen dulu?dengan make over nye..dengan kurusnye..waaaa besnyeee saat2 itu.*sob*

SIX is the number

Phewww..6 days to go..hectic nye rase..with the workload lg hujung2 taun ni..
the good news is..this coming saturday dah start cutiii...yeay!

the bad news is..tak boleh nak berfoya-foya pun..my schedule is reaaaaally pack sampai the day itself.

Lets see...

Saturday: Kemas bilik yang dah macam tongkang pecah..haha. Then later ada appoinment with the spa..ahhh so need it..badly.Sakit dah badan2 gue..huhu

Sunday: Prolly bawa parents and have a look at the house..

Monday: Amek baju for both receptions..and have a meeting with the videographer for my solemnization and reception..

Tuesday: time ni dah chaotic kot rumah..haha..ohhhh selendang utk nikah belum adee..aduii malasnye nak redah jalan TAR..sempat ke tak nie??hmmmm

Wednesday: siap2 and berinai segala macam..Pelamin, khemah semua datang..

Thursday: erk...huhuhuhu *takut*

Tadaaaa

ok ok..here's a quick update to my all loyal readers (cewah)..oh its 10 more days to go..am i freaking out?nope..kooooool aje..hehehe

anyhow nak update ni je..supposedly the solemnization will start at 3.30pm.That was the initial plan. Then tah macam mana the initial tok kadi dah expired pulakkkk..ade ke dah tamat tempoh tauliah tu (tah ape tah..cam license kot) bulan 11 aritu..but tak inform my dad. padahal dah call up tanye semua benda kat dia..didn't even once he mention about dah expired!haiyooo..and that was 1 week ago.Panic tak?of course la..campur hangin satu badan. Then my dad had to go to Pejabat Agama Daerah Kajang and cari jurunikah lain. Luckily the date is still available. But dia nie kerek sket..syaratnya:If 3pm sharp the rombongan tak sampai lagi, die tak akan tunggu. He would go to other places. Sbbnye, ramai orang kawen aritu(and die kerek!huh!)

eh terpanjang pulak citer.Harap2nya semua berjalan lancar la on that day.

hantaran dah settle..baju nikah dah ambil tadi..love it!i design sendiri tauuu..huhuhu
sok fitting baju sanding pulak.Hopefully takyah alter lagi..2 kali dah.penat aku.
what else?hmm ohh ye door gifts pun dah.so tinggal nak pamper myself ajeee..yeayy!

ok nanti update lagi..sooooo tiredddd.Taaa~

check check check

Copy this wedding checklist from Peon

Checklist Kahwin

1. Kursus Kahwin -- > settle
2. Daftar Kahwin kat Pej Agama, submit semua document/borang --> tok kadi dah expired..now have to go to Kajang pulakkk..hishh waiting for my dad to sette it
3. Kad Jemputan --> done
a. Stem, envelope etc --> done
b. Senarai Jemputan --> done
4. Booking Dewan (kalau buat kat dewan book 4 bulan b4 kenduri dan bayar deposit) --> kat umah ajee
5. Booking Tempat Nikah (kalau kat masjid) --> nikah @ home
6. Nikah --> 25 Dec
a. Catering (kalau nikah tak sama hari sanding) --> done
b. Kanopi (sewa) --> all in dengan catering
c. Baju Nikah --> separuh done
d. Mak Andam/Tukang mekap... jgn ambik man kajang ek --> haha ada apa dengan man kajang??dah booking..but not MK la.
e. Pakai Inai... nak lukis2 pi kat kedai --> dah book jugak
f. Mas Kahwin --> side sane uruskan
g. Duit Hantaran --> side sane uruskan
h. Bayar Jurunikah --> the bridegroom kene bayar..ikut rate kawasan.
i. Barang Kemas batal air sembahyang --> ring? dah..tatau rupa bentuk mcm mana..surprise katanya..
j. Barang2 Gubah hantaran, sewa dulang hantaran, tema warna, sewa bantal nikah --> almost done
k. Ole-Ole untuk tetamu yang datang masa nikah --> no ole² time nikah
l. Hantaran (Perempuan) --> settle
- Kain, Cincin, Sirih Junjung, Telekung/sejadah, Manisan/kek, Coklat, Tuala, Bunga Rampai, Kasut, Handbag, Al-Quran, Buah, Minyak Wangi, Make-up, etc.
m. Hantaran (Lelaki) --> settle..cuma manisan2 tu belum lagi.
- Baju Kemeja/Tie, Wallet, Tali Pinggang, Toilletries, Kasut, Baju Melayu, Jam, Sejadah, Songkok, Tuala, Sirih Junjung, Bunga Rampai, Pulut Kuning, Kek, Coklat, Buah, etc.
7. Sanding --> 27 Dec
a. Catering hari sanding --> done
b. Pelamin --> done
c. Main Table --> done
d. Baju Sanding --> dah fitting 2 kali..ade je yg xkene..haihh ni yg malas nk sewa nie..tempah kang wat jadi pameran je dalam wardrobe tu..haha
e. Cameraman
- Video / gambar --> done
f. Emcee – kalau buat kat dewan --> takde emcee
g. Tukang Baca Doa --> x tau
h. Group Marhaban --> done..satu bas..haha
i. Kompang --> xde
j. Transportation (untuk ke rumah perempuan / lelaki) --> kereta je la
k. Muzik
- Sewa audio system --> caterer.. songs x pilih lg btw
l. Mak Andam / Tukang Mekap --> dahh
m. Baju Malam Berinai --> no malam berinai
n. Kek Kahwin 10 tingkat (kalah siti nurhaliza) --> 3 je dah laa
o. Baju Potong Kek --> same je baju sampai end of majlis
p. Bunga Pahar kat pelamin --> dah kot..tah org sponsor
q. Alat2 Merenjis
- Bunga rampai untuk letak dalam bekas merenjis --> xde renjis2
r. Bantal kecik kat pelamin dan kipas untuk pengapit pegang --> wajib ke??
s. Bunga Manggar --> xde
t. Bunga Telur / berkat untuk tetamu
- Jangan lupa beli telur dan rebus --> sedara uruskan
u. Ole-Ole untuk Tetamu Main Table --> dalam proses

there..nak tulih pun penat

apatah lagi nak buat semua benda ni..huhu

hopefully semua berjalan lancarrr..amiiinnn

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass..It's about learning to dance in the rain..

20 days to go!!!

Omg!

20 more days before the the bed is no longer mine alone

20 more days before the tv remote is no longer in my control

20 more days before the priority doesnt revolve around me no more

20 more days before i start feeling guilty for splurging on unnecessary stuffs..

20 more days before i have to seek permission in every move that i'd make..everything that i'd do..

whoaaa

being an independent woman doesn't help me in that sense..at all

yikes~

SpReeeeeeE

Last Saturday was tiring...but it was super fun (bb nnt tolak atas troli lg ek..hihi)
woke up early in the morning (heee kagum2)..feeling rather excited..
the plan was to do some shopping spree..

where?
IKEA
for our newly home sweet home..
wheeeeee~
(kuarters je pun..tp excited semacam haha)

oohhh sangat rambang mata..oh no, not me.but HIM!haha surprisingly i was the one who being the rational one..he wanted to buy the hangers for rm5..tp ada 4 keping je..and i said
"takpe kita tgk kat carrefour lagi byk dapat"

see seee..that was so unlike me..normally i would just grab it without having second thoughts..or three or four..oh nooo what have i become??so baik of me kan..haha

however..we just couldn't take our eyes off this one particular rug..oh so gorgeous.burnt holes in our pockets.takpe lah..berkenan punya pasal..lagipun it fit the concept..and comfy untuk bergolek2 di kemudian hari..hehe oh yes, our home deco ada concept.Dalam proses nak pimp la ni..hihi

so by the end of the day..more like in 3 hours..we managed to grab coffee table,shoe rack,clothes rack,rugs and door mats and cushions.
items sikit je kan?
tapi bila tengok receipt..mak aiiiii.
but i wont complaint though..i have suggested other options..but HE insisted. And bermurah hati to pay most of it..
weehooo..bukan salahku ok..=D

(thank you bb..nanti kita pergi IKEA lagi ye..banyak lagi barang nak beli ni..ha ha ha)

oh snap~

we had fun

despite peluh yang berjejeh-jejeh

but yea..we had loads of fun!





thanks a lot to an old friend of mine and his partner..who happens to be his girlfriend..for having us as their models tak bertauliah..haha

eh but this pic me yang pandai-pandai edit..still waiting for the real deal..

tungguuuuu bak kata love birds photoGs kita (sampai demam2 haa ada sorang tu..siannn)

sinan & nuown

thanks a lot guys! =D!

Hikayat Hang Cerewet dan Aku Fussy

(CAUTION: Lengthy.Needs high level of patience and tolerance)

Maybe some of you may have noticed a few new widgets added to this blog. To those who don’t, take a look at the top most of the blog content area and on the right column of this blog. Yes, countdowns and more countdowns. Bukan nak mempoyokan diri. But i really need those.why?

Because..

i am still taking my own sweet time..mcm siput b**i yang lembab.. those tickers tu is like a kick to the butt la..haha..i was doing ok until these questions popped up from my colleagues:

"how’s the prep going..baju dah buat ke..sewa ke tempah..kad dah settle ke..etc"

and my answer would be the same as what i told them 5 months ago..BELUM sambil gelak2. susah2 pakai je baju tunang hari tu..ok pe..haha’ (dalam hati je la)..hey at least i’m being optimistic here ok..=p

the truth is..everything is still under control..nampak je mcm tak buat apa2..but i’ve settled quite a few things already..the major ones la..but biasa la fickle minded. Did i tell you that i was a bad decision maker..kalau the given duration is long..i’d still wait till the last minute. Tak tau la..mmg camtu..i work best bila dah time tu macam nyawa2 ikan..plan tu ok..execution of the plan tu sangat lembab..haha.i know its not a good practice. Bukan apa takut bila dah decide and this fickle minded punya manusia mula nak tukar itu ini (aku la tu).

Anyway..tu baru intro je. Ni baru nak masuk isi.ala bukan selalu aku membebel banyak macam nie kan (semua sebab tenet yang super duper lembab kat ofis ni. Terpaksa la type kt word. Kalau tak maap leee).
oh back to the isi. So last Sunday we went to Jalan TAR to hunt for the kain for nikah. 2 months ago i’ve decided to buy a plain chiffon. Then hantar kat tailor bagi dia jahit all the beadings like the one i’ve seen in one of the mags. Really excited because i just love the design. So before heading there, i’ve made a mental note. Choose>Grab>Pay>.Simple kan?dalam setengah jam boleh selesai.

Oh how wrong i was. Setibanya di sana..mental note itu sudah dicarik-carik. Haha before i realized it, my eyes were looking for the beaded ones instead. The initial color was white.But i don’t really fancy white. So tukar jadi off –white. Which is what the usual color for baju nikah la kan..But i wanted a little bit of color to it..so cari yang beadings color2 sket..i did find one or two yang disukai at this one shop where i bought the kain for my engagement last year..Tunjuk la kat Mr Fiance the kain..tau apa dia cakap?

“biasa je” sambil mencebik. Adeh.Ok la move to the next choice..biasa jugak katanya..ok fine.Later cari punya cari..jumpa la kain yang saaaaaangat cantik siap beading lip lap lip lap ape semua. I tanya cantik kan?He said yes (finally the response was not ‘biasa je ‘).then i asked the sales assistant (yang tgk kitorang pun dah lain macam)berapa RM semeter.

“ oh ini RM400/meter”

Amekkk ko luar biaaaaaaasa punya kain..ahahaha terbeliak mata Mr Fiance..(hah amek luar biasa punya kain sy cari!i kan high taste haha)maka kami pun terus angkat kaki dan cabut dari kawasan kain-kain itu..dan juga kedai itu hahaha

Next stop pegi la kedai yang satu lagi..Euro Moda punya section..memang banyak la choices..bertingkat-tingkat rak . kitorang buat macam rumah sendiri la (siap ada sofa empuk..laaaagi la menggalakkan homely feeling itu haha)..ada la dalam 10 jenis design kot aku tarik keluar satu-satu. From white to off-white to beige to cream to champagne to very light pink to off-white balik.Semua tidak berkenan di hati Mr Fiance..cerewet mak aiii kalah gue.(siapa yang nak pakai pun tatau..haha nanti ckp camtu kena tanya balik 'siapa yang nak tengok orang tu pakai'..adehh sonyap yo la)

yang bestnye tu..sekejap tak ok.Lepas tu ok pulak.Yang mana aku berkenan, he didn’t like it.Yang mana die suka, aku mencebik. Semua pun “biasa je”. Yang mana luar biasa pun i had no idea. Sampai dah pikir-pikir nak pakai baju alien je hari nikah nanti .Luar biasa kan?ishhh..

To cut it short, after 2 hours disagreeing on the kain at ONLY one store..we finally made our decision (his decision la actually). And guess what?

Lets just say byebye to Ms White and Ms Off-White.
And say hye to Ms .......

Now, where’s my Plan B.

Oh lupa, baru nak buat.

Duhhh~

p/s- bb..u owe me!

rain rain on my face..

yesterday i had to call in sick..i woke up in the morning with a very sharp pain in my throat..i called my mom..she was preparing my bekal(uzur..hehe)in the kitchen..keluar suara garuk!mcm budak laki br nk pecah suaraaa..hahaha

And so i text my boss and took my EL.Later had my cough syrup and boommm..sampai petang tak sedar ape..bangun2 je test suara..yeayy no more suara nyah yg keluar..back to my own voice tapi ala2 rock jugak la..haha

Today, our initial plan was to go here but Mr Fiance tetibe saje down with flu!yesterday he was perfectly fine!haii takkan jangkit thru tepon kot??haha and that means..no buka puasa bersama-sama jugak lah..uu uuuu

weather pun sangat sedap untuk tarik selimut and tido..kaannn
sambil-sambil tu..i survey2 photoGs for my upcoming wedding..this is what i got from one of the photoGs:

SN: btw, kenapa book last minute betul?

me: errr..i thot 3 months before kire ok lg?

SN: Kat CS orang biasa booking 18 bulan in advance

sampai paling lambat dalam 4 bulan sebelum.

hoh??ok now i am reaaaaally panicking!ala tapi tu CS..mmg la (sedapkan hati sendiri)

*tarik selimut..tido*

poningnyooo

uwaaaa..stressnyeeeee..now my weekends are no longer utk berehat or bersantai..keletihan yang amat..mentally and physically. malam penat macam mana pun i would still be awake till midnight or yg paling lambat was 3 am!

This wedding prep is somehow killing me softly..i know i know..its supposed to be fun (confessions of the married ones)but being me..i think too much.Miss M once said 'its not a headache for those who have the $$$..sign je.and for those who dont care much about the details and stuff..asalkan ade cukup'

its true though...i wish i could be like 'aiman tak kesah'..but that's just not me..i dont have enough $$$ either..huhu..dengan fickle minded nye lagi..haihhhh poningnyoooo~

Cant wait to get this over with..oH!the baju nikah belum buat..the wedding dress belum decide..hmmm should i or shouldnt i stop worrying now??

tick tock tick tock..

I just realized something a few hours ago..well a couple of things actually.As of today..it has been 6 months and 15 days since i was officially crowned as Ms Fiancee (haha)..how time flies in a jiffy!We dont really count every single day or month of anniversary or whatever..so it came as a surprise to me la..like HUH??so fast aa??

And a minute later it hit me hard..another 4 months away(minus the fasting month of course) from having the title 'Mrs'..aiyooo..patut la jerawat pemanis muka pun dah start beranak pinak..yes i am stressed out!I dont even have the 'wedding file' opened yet!lalalalala~

any recommendations?anyone?

pretty?

Plan the Planning

i can feel the tension is building up bit by bit..the date has been set and we're already in the mid of April..n yet i am far away from executing the plan..not even 1%..haha.And my mom had been asking constantly about when?who?where?how?..arghh~

and boleh pulak compare dengan nik azura(if u read the yesterday's newspaper..she's getting married end of this year) yg dah 20% done compared to me. Gosh..stressnyeeee~

i'm taking baby steps here..i'm on my own..my hands are tight ok..so please understand.

For a start..i'm going to the bridal fair today with my Fiance..hopefully i'd get some brilliant ideas or offers that might come in handy..Amiiin.